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posted on 6/12/20

A middle-aged couple has decided that they will need to close their family restaurant. The couple opened the restaurant soon after they got married 15 years ago. When the coronavirus shutdown began, the couple struggled to adapt to online ordering and pickup. Despite their best efforts, the couple felt they had no choice but to close the restaurant down.

During the extreme economic stress, the couple began to fight non-stop. Old resentments and unresolved issues have returned to the forefront of their minds. They have realized that they no longer have anything in common and they need to end their marriage. It is time to cut the cord on their marriage and start their new lives apart from each other.

What to do After Deciding You Need a Divorce

If you have decided that it is time to seek a divorce during the coronavirus pandemic, you are not alone. After deciding you want to seek a divorce, you must immediately inform your spouse, unless you have both decided to file for divorce together.

It is always wise to speak to an experienced divorce lawyer as soon as possible. If you would like to go forward with the divorce immediately, your lawyer can help you file. If you still need to tell your spouse, it is best to ask your lawyer to help you draft a friendly letter to tell your spouse that you have filed for divorce. The letter can state that you would like the process to remain amicable. If your spouse is physically or verbally abusive, your lawyer can help you decide the best way to inform your spouse of the divorce. In these cases, you might need to seek an order of protection.

Deciding on Your Living Arrangement

It can be challenging to imagine what your life will look like during and after your divorce. It is important to consider whether you will live together for a while during the divorce or one of you will move out. When couples have children, they often decide to live together for a while to make the transition easier for their children. Sometimes, one spouse cannot afford to move out and get another place to live.

Organize Your Financial Information and Manage Your Money

You will need to gather significant amounts of financial information for your divorce. Take this time to gather all of the financial documents you will need in the divorce process. These include the last three years of your tax returns, your pay stubs, your insurance policies, real estate deeds, and retirement accounts. It is also wise to begin considering what your finances will look like after you are divorced. You will need to show your standard of living if you are requesting alimony.

Contact an Experienced Illinois Divorce Lawyer Today

If you are considering getting a divorce, the lawyers at Glasgow & Olsson are here to help. Contact our law firm today to schedule your initial consultation.