Finding the right person is not at all easy. Sometimes the attraction is not there, sometimes the personalities are not compatible, and sometimes there just is not the right chemistry. Finding your “soulmate” is no easy task. Most of the time, the things that sour a budding relationship are innocuous and harmless. Even down the line, plenty of people drift apart or discover incompatibilities where there was once harmony. Often, rifts can grow in relationships from quirks that were once...

If you are seeking out an Order of Protection or a Stalking No Contact order, you may be overwhelmed already. Feeling threatened and fearful for your safety or the safety of a dependent loved one is not always conducive to the kind of clear-headed presentation of evidence and the testimony that you will have to make for yourself or a loved one. Even if you are initially seeking an emergency order of protection, you will likely eventually seek out a...

It is an absolute travesty when a disabled or high-risk person finds themselves at threat of harm or abuse. Disabled people are people just like anyone else, and all people deserve to live in safety and comfort. If you are disabled and need to seek out a restraining order of any kind, there are several options for you if you feel that you may not be able to utilize the usual avenues. If you are a person who has witnessed...

Whether you have found yourself as the offending party in a restraining order case or you are a victim seeking out a restraining order, you should know the different term lengths of emergency orders and plenary orders of protection and their differing burdens. It is important that you understand the differences so that, if you are a victim, you can start the legal process most appropriate for you. If you are the respondent in a restraining order case, you should...

Let’s say that you have been issued a restraining order, whether an Emergency Order of Protection, Plenary Order of Protection, or Stalking No Contact Order. Outside observers of the situation may assume that you are an awful person to have a victim petition for an order against you, but maybe the reality is more complicated than that. Maybe you have been cheated on or lied to and things got a little too heated every time that you attempted to bring...

Summary of Thomas Warner’s Case and Appeals The news is full of people who have had the charges dropped against them by the state because of bad evidence, recanting witnesses and, at times, even police misconduct. Most people think once they have the charges dismissed and expunged, they are entitled to a Certificate of Innocence. This is often not the case. A certificate of innocence has just one function. It serves no purpose other than to permit its bearer the...

Whether you find yourself in the unfortunate situation of being the offender in an order of protection case or you have just gotten an Order of Protection (OP) or Stalking No Contact Order (SNC) placed on an offender, you should know how seriously the state takes this legal protection. There is no room for making mistakes with an OP or SNC in Illinois since the state takes any violation seriously. It does not matter if you “just wanted to see...

Imagine you have nurtured a long-distance relationship with a US resident. Over the years, things are going well, so you decide that you will finally make a bigger commitment, you decide to travel to the US to deepen your relationship. At first, things are great, you seem to have chemistry together, and she seems sweet and nice. You resolve to seek out a green card by marriage. After a while, however, you begin to see that she has a dark...

Protecting your children is undoubtedly one of your top priorities. What do you do if your child is threatened by verbal abuse, physical abuse, or other forms of harassment such as stalking? Let’s say that your child has made a new “internet friend” who seems a little too invasive and a little too interested; maybe they eventually start running into your child “by chance.” Or perhaps your spouse gets drunk and batters your child, or verbally berates them and causes...

Stalking is a serious and terrifying matter. Boundaries are an important part of social norms, and our sense of mental health and wellness often depends on respect for these boundaries. In the course of daily life, all of us have likely run into someone who violates our communicated or socially-standardized boundaries. These boundary violations can make us feel disrespected, annoyed, or unsafe. Stalking is an extreme violation of these boundaries, and it is a scary and dangerous experience to be...

Any romantic relationship can be messy, and it is sometimes difficult or impossible to sort out who is the primary offender in an abusive relationship or an acrimonious divorce. It is common for victims in abuse situations to fight back, usually verbally, but sometimes physically, as a means of combating the control and coercion exercised by their abuser. Perhaps as a response to being repeatedly broken down and berated by your partner, you respond with cruel acts of your own,...

Most people think of stalking as a shady person following you in the night or perhaps hiding near your house, physically invading your privacy. But in the digital age of social media, there are more ways an individual can be harassed. The state of Illinois recognizes cyberstalking as a legitimate form of stalking, so if you feel that you are being harassed, you should follow the appropriate processes for a Stalking No Contact Order (SNC) or an Order of Protection(OP)....

Despite our different backgrounds, most of us yearn for intimacy and affection. We are all looking for love, and we try to use our best judgment looking for partners who are safe, comforting, and secure. But what happens when for some reason or another – details we could never have known, the rose-tinted glasses of infatuation – we end up in a close relationship with a dangerous or abusive person? Domestic abuse – whether physical, verbal, or mental – causes...

If you have been arrested for drunk driving in Illinois, you probably already know the importance of hiring a knowledgeable attorney to defend against the charges. However, you may not realize that there’s a lot you can do to help with the case. Trust an Illinois DUI defense lawyer to handle the legal side of things, but here are a few of the tasks you should take on yourself. 1. Write Everything Down: Details matter in a DUI case, so...

Let’s suppose you are a hardworking family man. You have committed countless hours and immeasurable blood, sweat, and tears to your family. Despite constantly being busy with work, you have tried your best to also fulfill the obligations of fatherhood and to be a good husband. As part of being a good family man, you make sure to keep your family protected, and that means that you responsibly and legally carry firearms. Even Good People Get Stuck in Tough Situations...